Although pro-dommes are well-paid, women called lifestyle dommes choose to dominate men without compensation as a way of life.I learned all about female domination of submissive men (or femdom): a large, thriving subculture that's often misrepresented.When I first met Doug on in 2005, we were 26 and living in Washington, D.
It's unfortunate, but the stronger a woman is (and the higher her position within a company) the more men she'll cut out of her "potential date" list. The approach here is one of strength and confidence - much more so than other women.
When you think of a sexually submissive man who's aroused by dominant women, chances are you picture a meek, awkward, beta male who will go to embarrassing lengths to please his date.
In reality, a sub is more likely to be a fit, confident and successful professional (think: corporate executive, doctor, or attorney).
I knew he was right—I just didn't know what it meant. Doug was tall with dark hair and eyes, but it wasn't his looks that unglued me.
A recent business school graduate, he was smart, confident, and witty. We dated for a few months and had intense—if, in retrospect, vanilla—sex.